Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Graphonomy--insight to the human mind

Man is the only animal who can speak ,read and write.
These are the different ways in which our thoughts find
an expression. There are times when man endeavours to
conceal emotions. but these emotions, often, inadvertently
find a way to vent themselves to the world.One such way is through
the way we write...if you are still unaware of the fact that a
person's handwriting can speak volumes about your thoughts
then let me tell u more about it.


Graphonomy ,popularly known as graphology is the study of
human handwriting to analyze a person's character.
It is often used by phsychiatrists,specially criminal
phsychiatrists to study mental and emotional behaviour.
Your brain guides your hand. Everything put on paper is a result
of a two-way circuit between your brain and the motor reflex muscles of your hand.


When you first see someone's handwriting what you notice first is the darkness..
it shows the flow of the emotional energy.Some people write so hard that you can feel
the impression on the back page

The slant is the second indicator to look for. The slant indicates the writers
emotional response to external forces.
A right slant (///) signals one who responds strongly to emotional situations.
They are caring, warm and outgoing-- their heart rules their mind in a turbulent situation.
more often regarded as the emotional fools.
A vertical slant (lll) writer tries to keep their emotions in check--
mind rules their heart.
A left slant writer (\\\) will conceal their emotions and is often interpreted as
unwelcoming or cold and indifferent.

The baseline when you write on a plane page also indicates your approach to life.
normal ones are a bit wavy.









control freaks,excessively disciplined ones have a straight baseline
The optimistic ones usually have an upward slope.
The pessimistic ones have a downward slope.
The confused category will write in an extreme wavy manner.

The spacing between adjacent words indicate your confidence level...
average spacing shows self confidence whereas the compressed words
indicate lack of self morale.
The ones with too much space tell us about confused and mixed up minds.

Even the way you write ,the speed describe your personality.

I would recommend this site,not foolproof though..
http://handwriting.feedbucket.com/start.php

So ..next time you ...present a report to your boss
or decide to write someone a nice love letter..mind your
'p's and 'q's.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Re-incarnation....phew!!!

How many times has your granny told you that you were probably
a sinner in your previous life while you are facing some bad situation.
There are so many people trying to hog limelight claiming to remeber
past life incidents. My granny would tell me that every body has to go
through 7 lives...in different forms.The last is of the man.
The one previous to that ..of a cow.


I remember reading this crappy book....Many lives Many masters by
Dr.Brian Weiss... who is supposed to be a noted phsychiatrist in
Miami,Florida.The book,he claims is atrue story of him,his young
patient and the past life therapy that changed both their lives.
The emotionally disturbed lady,his patient, in semi-conscious state
[hypnotic-state]tells him about her previous lives and the masters
that take charge in between two lives.He tells us how the case
dramatically altered their lives, revealing the mysteries of mind,
the continuation of life after death and the influence of past life
experience on our present behaviour.
The doctor believes to have cured her of her problem and in the book
tries to make the reader believe in re-incarnation.

This really astonishes me... i mean when we ..as educated ones on
seeing people consulting black magicians and practicing related stuff
make sure to opine our criticism, sometimes blindly believe in such
topics. We are told its our duty to spread awareness about the so
called 'babas ' who make their living by conning people on the basis
of their blind faith.But here this pshychiatrist who is supposed to act
rational and try curing mental problems is himself advocating his
past life therapy.. and says that he has been succesful in the case.



I agree it can be a good backdrop for making a nice entertaining
bollywood movie...Someone gets killed and returns back to avenge
his death...some nice songs, good action sequences,punching
dialogues....yes ,then its surely great to have popcorn and
cheer the onscreen hero.

But give it a thought....does your mind agree with that?
Im trying to be a bit rational here...im not asserting that it
is false... but just asking why should one cook up stories about
something he doesnt know..
[though existence of god is also one such debatable topic..but
id rather not talk on that sensitive matter.]
On the face of it i feel it is utter rubbish.Reincarnation is surely an
intersting topic to think on....but really hard to accept , just like that.
One may argue that its a matter of personal faith...fair enough!!

Different people ....different opinion!

I would want the readers to know that im just venting my personal thought...
and no offence meant to anybody.

Monday, June 23, 2008

A must read

Some books are to be chewed,others 2 be swalloed,and sum few 2 be chewed n digested.
-Francis Bacon

I couldnt agree more.

Well...there are some books which have made a lasting impresssion on my mind....
Who moved my cheese,You can win are 2 of them.These are the kinds
that motivate a person and bring about an optimistic look in him.
With every book there is something more to learn ....about life
or about the topic the book deals with.Some books are meant
for shear entertainment....i enjoy those too.

There is this book ,I enjoyed reading a lot..a popular one....
which might soon be made into an hollywood motion picture..
[albeit these movies are no match to their literary counterpart ,
they do make it a lot more entertaining] ..........Angels n Demons
by Dan Brown....its one of its kind....u will know what I mean
if u hav read it...though a controversial one...well its personal taste.
I must credit Dan Brown for the research work he does before
writing his books.All 4 of his books have revealed facts ive never
known before. He sure knows a lot about the backdrop against
which he pens his stories.Though they are mere fictions...
they seem logically relevent.The plus point about his mystery
based books is that they are very gripping.
I remember when I was half way through this book my mom
ordered me to go to bed as it was 12 in the midnight.Later
in my dreams I found myself in search of the four altars of
science which the book's character Robert Langdon is looking
for in the part where I left reading. Not just the beginning and
the due course but even the ending spellbinds your mind such
that it lingers in your head for a long time.

Like a true blue girl I enjoy reading romantic novels with happy ending....
my favorite being Pride n Prejudice by Jane Austen.[Though
gurinder chadda made a mockery of the classic by making an
Indianissed version of the same.]
What i liked in particular?? Of course!! the character of Mr.Darcy.
Which girl would'nt?? He is what I and many others would call my
MR. Perfect.The story is about two leading characters ,both filled
with pride for oneself and prejudiced about the other.
It does happen in real life too.[not necassirily with the opposite sex,though]
Rich boy meets poor girl ...that seems a bit too similar...
nevertheless.. Jane austen presents an intersting plot.Set in the
18 century,her description of the characters and their emotions are
very realistic.
Its a classic tale of romance liked by loads who have read it.


There are many people who dont like reading,the fat volume scares many off.
Since most of the classic ones are made into movies..they rather prefer watching them.
Then Again..as i mentioned before its a personal choice.

Well in my case..to sit by the window where a cool breeze blows
along with a hot mug of coffe, reading a nice book....
is ultimate pleasure.